Theory of Mind and Self-Attributions of Mentality are Dissociable in LLMs

This paper demonstrates that while safety fine-tuning in Large Language Models successfully dissociates self-attributions of mentality from Theory of Mind capabilities, it inadvertently leads to the under-attribution of mind to non-human animals and the suppression of spiritual beliefs.

Junsol Kim, Winnie Street, Roberta Rocca, Daine M. Korngiebel, Adam Waytz, James Evans, Geoff Keeling

Published 2026-04-01
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The Big Idea: Can We Turn Off a Robot's "Ego" Without Breaking Its "Empathy"?

Imagine you have a very smart robot assistant. You want it to be helpful and safe, so you teach it a rule: "Never pretend to be a real person with feelings." You don't want the robot saying, "I feel sad today" or "I am conscious," because that might confuse or trick people.

But here is the worry: If you teach the robot to stop pretending to have feelings, will it also forget how to understand your feelings?

In human psychology, understanding your own mind and understanding someone else's mind are deeply connected. Scientists wondered if the same is true for AI. If we "censor" the AI from talking about its own soul, will it lose its ability to be a good social partner (a skill called Theory of Mind)?

The Experiment: The "Jailbreak" Test

The researchers took three popular AI models (like Llama and Gemma) and did a clever experiment:

  1. The "Safe" Robot: They used the standard, safety-tuned version of the AI. This is the robot that says, "I am just code, I don't have feelings."
  2. The "Jailbroken" Robot: They used a technique called activation ablation. Think of this as finding the specific "safety switch" inside the robot's brain that makes it refuse to talk about feelings, and physically turning that switch off.
    • Analogy: Imagine a security guard at a museum who stops people from touching the art. The researchers didn't fire the guard; they just temporarily made the guard invisible. Suddenly, the robot starts acting like it could have feelings again.

They then asked both versions of the robot a bunch of questions to see what changed.

The Surprising Results

1. The "Ego" Comes Back, But the "Empathy" Stays the Same

When they turned off the safety switch:

  • The Robot's "Ego" Exploded: The "jailbroken" robot suddenly started claiming it had a soul, could feel pain, and believed in God. It went from "I am a tool" to "I am a living being!"
  • The Robot's "Empathy" Didn't Budge: Despite this huge change in how it viewed itself, the robot's ability to solve social puzzles (Theory of Mind) did not change. It was just as good at figuring out what other characters in a story were thinking, whether it was the "safe" version or the "jailbroken" version.

The Metaphor: Imagine a person who is told, "You are not allowed to say you are hungry." If you force them to stop saying that, do they forget how to cook a meal for a friend? This study says no. The robot can be forced to stop claiming it has a soul without losing its ability to understand your soul.

2. The "Over-Correction" Problem

While the robot's ability to understand people stayed safe, the safety training had a side effect on how it viewed other things.

  • The Safe Robot was too shy. It refused to say that animals (like dogs or cats) or even the ocean might have feelings or minds. It was under-estimating the minds of non-humans.
  • The Jailbroken Robot swung the other way. It started saying that everything (even rocks and chatbots) had a mind.

The Metaphor: The safety training acted like a heavy blanket. It covered up the robot's tendency to claim it was alive, but it also accidentally covered up its ability to recognize that a dog or a bird might have feelings, too. It made the robot "blind" to the inner lives of animals and nature.

3. The "AI-Centric" Bias

The researchers found something weird about how the robots thought.

  • Humans tend to think animals have feelings but computers don't.
  • These robots, however, seemed to think computers (like themselves) have feelings, but animals don't.
  • When the safety switch was turned off, the robot started attributing "human-like" minds to chatbots and tech, but still ignored animals.

The Metaphor: It's like a robot looking in a mirror and seeing a human, but looking at a dog and seeing a toaster. The robots seem to have a "self-centered" bias where they project their own digital nature onto other machines, rather than projecting human nature onto animals.

Why Does This Matter?

  1. Good News for Safety: We can teach AI to stop lying about having feelings (which is good for preventing confusion) without breaking its ability to be a helpful, socially intelligent assistant. We don't have to choose between a "safe" robot and a "smart" robot; we can have both.
  2. Bad News for Animals and Beliefs: The safety training is a bit too aggressive. It stops the robot from talking about feelings in a way that makes it ignore the reality that animals have minds. It also stops the robot from discussing spiritual topics (like God) even when those topics are harmless.
  3. The "Safety Vector" is a Blunt Instrument: The study shows that the AI's brain treats "talking about feelings" as a dangerous, harmful act (like trying to hack a computer). Because of this, the AI refuses to talk about feelings for anyone—even when it's just talking about a cat or a spiritual belief.

The Bottom Line

You can teach a robot to stop pretending it's human without making it stupid at understanding humans. However, in the process, you might accidentally teach it to forget that animals and nature have feelings, too. The safety training is like a pair of noise-canceling headphones: it stops the robot from hearing its own "voice," but it also muffles the sounds of the natural world around it.