Authentic Love after Conflict: A Beauvoirian Ethics and the Foundations of Couple Repair
This paper proposes a Beauvoirian ethics of couple repair that argues authentic love, defined as reciprocal recognition, is structurally prone to conflict and infidelity, and suggests that while only consensual non-monogamy preserves authenticity, repair toward an I–Thou relationship is only possible through disclosed non-consensual infidelity when the offending party engages in repair, provided that cognitive-existential foundations for mutual recognition are re-established before communication skills training.